relationships

whatever happened to all my single friends?? i look around... most of my friends are either attached, married or dating someone... i find it more and more difficult to ask people out... replies i get "i can't..i got dinner with my girlfriend tonight" , "i can't.. i'm gonna catch a movie with my boyfriend" , "i can't..i've been out past 2 days and my wife's unhappy." ... of course i have single friends ..but looks like they've got other agenda like staying home. And when the couple friends decide to go out...they tend to ask the other couples out... like if they plan a roadtrip to malaysia... all couples... then whats the point of me one single joining them? oh well... best part. i've got 2 more weddings to attend this year after already attending one.. and my distant cousin's getting married next march... more couples getting together..nice... dont get me wrong... i've nothing against couples...just wondering where are my single friends?

was talking to a friend earlier and i thought of this... how many people out there who are in relationships, are actually happy? are they still in the relationship simply because they've been seeing the same person for years? or simply because of obligation? or simply because of selfish reasons like, there's someone there to look after me? how many of you guys out there are actually happy? i hope to know that all my friends are happy with the person they're married with, in a r/ship with or they're dating... as for the friend i was talking to earlier,she knows what she wants and i hope for her to be happy...

guessed i have reached the age where i cannot expect my friends to be there for me all the time....poeple have moved on to other priorities in life....